joy abounds

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I smiled at my treasured friend–Wendy Cook–who captured this moment at the sacred kindness retreat last month. (I share with you with the hope that my JOY finds and lifts you.)
becky joy by wendy cook 2014

Adorned with the words JOY and LOVE that day, I was carrying intention and hopes for JOYFUeL; the homeplay program I’ve been dreaming up since summer.

For the past several months I’ve contemplated how to contribute to love and joy in the world using my own story, creations, and my imaginings. I have asked–and depend upon–the kindness and generosity of my friends … their talents and equipment and their help spreading the JOYFUeL.

JOYFUeL is what I’d do if I had a million dollars. I don’t yet … but I decided to stop using money as an excuse and use LOVE as currency to contribute to something I hope you will find beautiful, meaningful and JOYful.

Registration is open until November 30th. First installment to come December 1st. Joy will be delivered to in boxes around the world for 44 days. Want to join our adventure???? If so make sure to sign up and  hit “Submit” for joy at . (If not that’s ok too.)


JOY abounds!!!!

the joy factor

art warriors becky jaine

Five years ago I made a decision that radically changed my life fo-evah! I left my near 20-year career with the corporate world.

Being a diehard idealist, I questioned my involvement with for-profit focused corporations when most companies were remaining intensely prioritizing monetary profit above people and planet.

That year I gave birth to my third child, another new teacher … my Sonshine (pictured with my 2nd daughter/teacher above). I gifted myself an extended absence from my career which allowed space and time to fully experience each and every moment as it came to me without the pull of career responsibilities and to-do-lists.

This opening led me to reconsider every way I used my personal energy and to contemplate my life based using the joy factor.

Simply put, the joy factor is anything we do to INTENTIONALLY create joy or limit suffering in our lives or in the lives of those close to us.

I stopped long enough to witness the pure joy of humanity through my children’s human being-ness.

I ceased my self-created and self-imposed insanity of my too busy over-scheduled hectic demanding “perfect” life.

My purpose and intentions shifted and I lightened.

I gave up my fancy titles and my corporate income.

I assessed my vanity. I stopped wearing makeup and trendy dresses and suits. I bucked societal expectations and amazingly truly started enjoying life again, fully in the moment, with baby spit-up on my shirt, beds unmade, children laughing and covered in paint, and dirty dishes in the sink.

I really embraced my life and my power to choose how and where I spend my energy. I consciously committed to my own JOY.

I found new and unusual ways to love myself and started to celebrate my imperfections. I realized I was perfectly imperfect and hugged myself daily (and all my squishy parts too). I embraced the white hairs on my head and wrinkles on my face, and felt gratitude for them as sacred visual gifts reminding me of my time spent on earth.

I realized that if I can’t love and accept myself exactly as I am in my most natural state, then however did my children stand a chance to do the same for themselves? Especially amidst the media-created-mirage of “beauty”?!

I was terrified that I could somehow contribute to their marginalization.

I am my children’s first teacher and they may mirror me. I must become the change I wish to see in the world. My little cherubs’ inner beauty: their gorgeous bright spirits, their souls ah-blazing … I must contribute to the preservation of their true essence, by being real and flawed and true to my heart.

Young children shine a lovelight so bright, their joy is contagious.

Larger than my own energy and life, I could feel the possibility that my children do not have to disconnect from their source, their true nature. They do not have to become guarded, limited or apathetic. They can believe that being human means being true to themselves and embracing and celebrating their uniquities.

The joy factor created a startling personal revelation that beckoned me to change my course, to live with a renewed profound purpose; to love myself, love my children, to love all people on earth as the miraculous marvels we are… exactly as we are, perfectly imperfect.

Enough about me, what about YOU? How is YOUR joy? Have you ever reassessed and reactivated your daily energy to intensify your joy? Please comment below….

Ooooh, and please know you are invited to join me in an In Box adventure I’m calling JOYFUeL. Registration closes on 30th November. Inbox JOY sent beginning 1st December for 44 days. No requirements, no cost, just joy-infusions sent to you with lots of love.

<3 becky <3
Today’s post is featured as part of the Moods of Motherhood blogging carnival celebrating the launch of the second edition of Moods of Motherhood: the inner journey of mothering by Amazon bestselling author, Lucy H. Pearce (published by Womancraft Publishing).

Today over 40 mothers around the world reflect on the internal journey of motherhood: raw, honest and uncut. To see a list of the other contributors and to win your own copy visit Dreaming

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in the joyfuel locker room tonight

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dear mother father god,

let me use and give my life energy these next two months to heal and lift, nourish and love, honor and celebrate every being who joins this upcoming Inbox adventure called JOYFUeL. let words, stories, art, pictures, and moments be shared through me in a way that shines in love completely.

let me use my LIGHT to honor the splendor of life and the possibility for joy. let me honor my darkness in a way that allows me to be real, authentic and candid, and humorous would be good too.

help me let go of ego and of outcome. help me to know that whatever happens, i am giving love and love is what is needed most. help me to celebrate and marvel at how very vulnerable i feel.

show me the way to trust and let go. oh … and please please please help me lighten up.

let it be so. aho! amen. awomen. yes.

to human JOYFUeL!
<3 becky

JOYFUeL, let’s activate our joy superpowers

Dear Wonderful, Beautiful, Amazing and JOY-Deserving YOU,

I have a bit of an embarrassing confession … but I’m admitting this while simultaneously making a massive resolution, so love me anyway ;)

I have complained for years about how technology has “yet to be used for greater good.”  “The internet and social media are so consuming and superficial” I said (me all the while surfing, losing track of time on youtube, looking at cute kitty and doggy videos … click click clickety click. Woof. Like.)

I’ve written online about disconnecting from technology to be present with our kids, as presence is our greatest present to them. For 3 years I’ve offered personal reflections, poetry and muse, striving to create internet vitamin D for soul surfers here on this site.

I’ve used social media to help spread my thoughts and real-life offerings, but never dared to venture and create something interactive, collaborative and meaningful online. But  (yes, I’m using But as the first word in a sentence) I’m out of excuses. I’m breaking my patterns and some of my rules. I’m stepping forward and kicking it up a ME-sized notch and I’m hoping together we will co-create a meaningful experience online for JOY… with and FOR YOU! Technology for GOOD!

Since July, I’ve been daydreaming, creating and imagining …. a program to promote greater JOY for YOU … you who is reading this post. I’ve been designing a homestudy/homeplay course called JOYFUeL.

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JOYFUeL begins December 1st, 2014 and runs for 44 days through January 13th. So far it’s a few PDFs with self reflection prompts, a few videos with gentle creativity activities, and daily word art… some by me, and hopefully other contributions by other JOYFUeLers too.

JOYFUeL is a homestudy ecourse intended to activate greater JOY in our lives … to be done alone, with a friend or with children. We ALL need more joy, don’t you think?

Sign up is open now and will close November 30th. (No deadlines, except this one to register. No requirements, except an open heart and an email address.) Registration HERE.

Want to join me and co-create this wonder-filled JOYFUeL thingy? Oooooh, I soo hope so. (If not, that’s ok too.)

to JOY! (and to spreading LOVE and healing around the world)
<3 becky <3

P.S.  JOYFUeL is offered in the spirit of the gift economy. This is my gift to YOU, in gratitude for the amazing journey I have been given! You can read a bit more about this here.

P.P.S Public Facebook page here Thank you for sharing!

P.P.P.S Register here

sentient beeing (a photo, a poem, a moment)

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sentient beeing
by becky jaine (witness, historian & histologist)

she was in my garden yesterday.
beauty bee.
i found her and realized she… she was barely moving at all.

bee present.
she remained upon the flower
clinging to the center of a magically scented and ever-sweet mandala.

she came and stayed, hanging onto otherly beauty and life
while she was losing her own.
bee sage.

pollen adorning her legs,
material proof of duty well done on her last day.

she strengthened her grip and grabbed hold of the floral stamen
enabling –allowing– me to witness and capture her few last living moments.

i wept (and still i weep now as i tell you)
i weep for her:
this unassuming humble non bumble
intentional pollinator sentient beeing.

blessed buddha bee.

she wants you to know

beckyjaine she whispers 2014

I went to a special place–my yin mountain in North Carolina. She reminded me and asked me to remind you too:

you are loved. you are whole.

you are not broken. you are enough.

you are a MIRACLE.

yes. aho.

(don’t forget, beautiful soul. you you you are a miracle.)

sending my love and gratitude for your being here now,
and blessings of peace and love
    <3 _/|\_ <3
<3 becky jaine <3

p.s. my next adventure intends to contribute more JOY to our world through the forthcoming JOYFUEL homestudy e-course. registration is open, so please sign up. (we’ll begin december 1st, 2014, more details sent via email soon to those who are registered. this is my gift to you.)

the new story

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the new story
by becky jaine

i have made up my mind:
yes, i am going to be a part of the new story.
the new human story, the story that is necessary and redemptive and healing.


a story where human and world healing unfolds.

in the new story
i wake up and take complete control of my intentions, attention and actions.

(we are all
interrelated and interconnected,
entwined and entangled,
engaged and connected in the old story,
connected in possibility for our new story to emerge.)

in the new story
i still hurt for humans who are suffering and oppressed
and i feel for them while feeling and dealing with my own insecurities and hurts too.
i feel deeply while taking actions,
acting in my own community, doing something to reduce pain and activate greater human joy.

JOY is possible. JOY is probable. JOY will heal. JOY can activate.
human JOY is part of the new story.


in the new story
i contribute to the new world i can see and feel in my heart,
the new world that is possible for us.

(in the old story we haven’t yet realized we are one.
in the new story we live and own our oneness.)

in the new story i live in a world where humans give freely their gifts and talents.

humans feel awakened and empowered to be true to their hearts’ callings, desires, stirrings and ands,
to live in a world where i care more deeply about you and act as if we are all one…

because we are


<3 <3 <3

this poem is inspired by the work of charles eisenstein and david spangler.

random acts of balloons (shhhh this is a secret)

random acts balloons becky jaine 2014 jpgCan you keep a secret? Mmmm, NO??? Well, if you can’t, stop reading.

YES??? OK, then keep reading and know you are now officially dubbed an accomplice and you must comply!

Some of my wonderful Kindness Sisters, Mamas and Daughters and our families and friends have decided to share it with you, because you’re really good at secret keeping, yes?! That’s why you are still reading, huh?! :)

On Sunday, September 28th we are doing a little not-so-random act of kindness at a private location somewhere in the Southeast United States. This is our kindness flash mob. (ooooh, I’ve always wanted to write those words!)

We will show up with as many balloons as can safely fit in our cars and stand around at –shhh our ultra secret location– and give out smiles and colorful balloons to unsuspecting strangers, aka new friends.

Yes. I’m stoked. My children are giggly with anticipation. And my friends and their friends and families are super excited too.

But SHHHHhhhhhh, remember this is our little secret.

Now before you remind me, please know I am aware that helium balloons can be particularly naughty to the environment. I thought long and hard about the possible implications. After weighing it all up it feels like the human JOY (good currency) generated by this act of kindness campaign will outweigh the possible naughty impact these balloons could have. My heart says that HAPPY people try really hard not to let go of the balloons, and instead take them home to be enjoyed and safely played with … reminded of the kindness of strangers. Perhaps these balloons will make them want to… ummmm, how do I say it … well…

PAY IT FORWARD?! YES? in another act of kindness…. maybe?

Our intention with letting YOU in on this secret is for you consider playing with us, wherever you are in our beautiful world…  get some helium balloons galore and give them out: Sunday, September 28th … let’s ROCK n ROLL!

You in? If so, leave a message in the comments below, and tell us where you are are what town/city/country you will be JOY stoking! Take photos and send them to me and I’ll share on here the my site. Can’t do it on the 28th? Do it another day, soon!

INSERT>>>>>>> >>>>>AMAZING PHOTO OF SHINING HAPPY PEOPLE WITH BALLOONS HERE!!!!!!!!!!!<<<<<<<<< (coming soon)

IN RALEIGH area??? contact me and let’s collaborate.

This is for kindness. This is for JOY! This is because we can.

for the JOY of it
becky jaine

coming November 1st  J O Y F U e L
44 days to stoke your JOY, creativity, self and otherly kindness

(sign up to receive invitation here )